Comfortable in Silence: Supporting Communication in Neurodivergent Individuals

Mar 29

By Jessica Jordan, MS. OTR/L

Communication Looks Different for Everyone

Communication looks different for every individual, and especially within the neurodivergent community. Some people may use spoken language, others may rely on sign language, AAC devices (both low-tech and high-tech), or letterboards through methods like RPM (Rapid Prompting Method) or spelling to communicate.

The method doesn’t matter as much as the support. What matters most is meeting each person where they are and supporting the way they communicate—without judgment, pressure, or assumptions.

What Do We Mean by "Comfortable in Silence"?

In many of these scenarios, there may be a delay in communication—a pause while the individual motor plans their response. This moment of silence is not empty—it’s full of effort, intention, and processing.

Allowing for that pause is one of the most supportive things we can do. It gives space for the individual’s communication process to unfold at their pace, and it shows respect, patience, and trust.

Being comfortable in silence is not about disengagement—it’s about deep listening, and it’s a powerful way to build connection, safety, and meaningful communication. You could say it is a crucial pillar in creating a meaningful relationship between two communication partners.

Let’s normalize pausing. Let’s honor silence as part of communication, not a lack of it. Because for many, silence is where connection begins.

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