Comfortable In Silence

By Jessica Jordan, MS, OTR/L

Communication

Communication looks so differently for every individual in the world and specifically in the neurodivergent community. Some individuals may use sign language, some use spoken language, other may use devices such as AAC (low tech and high tech), and yet others may spell to communicate or use RPM (rapid prompting method). The methods vary, but what is most important is support surrounding the individual using whatever communication method best works for them and support their needs.

What Do We Mean By This?

In many of these scenarios there may be a delay in communication, allowing the individual time to go through the steps of motor planning in order to elicit their desired form of communication. In other words, there may be a pause or an opportunity for silence. This silence provides support to the individual who is communicating and illuminates listening and receptivity alongside building trust and creating a safe space. It is okay to be silent in these communication spaces, one may say it is a crucial pillar in order to create a meaningful relationship between two communication partners.